Once you are “in” a relationship, it is hard to objectively judge that relationship. Because it is so easy to confuse attraction for quality partnership, you need a set of guidelines to judge potential long-term partners against. This is best done while you are SINGLE and aren’t writing the list in a reaction to one […]
Prepare your soundbites. These are short stories that make you sound interesting, fun, and unique. Do them right and you’ll be memorable. Don’t tell her you’re a geek who likes to play Halo. That’s predictable and obvious. Tell her how you combined your love of website design with yoga to create a blog that […]
Hate those long awkward silences? Having a few of these questions memorized should keep the conversation moving. Bonus: many of these questions work well on any first meeting with a stranger from co-workers to friends of friends. Remember listening is more powerful than talking. We are a culture starving to be heard. Keep asking interesting […]
Learn all about what speed dating is, why you should try it, and how to speed date like a pro.
Getting Dirty Digitally Raises the Stakes It’s critical you don’t build up too many expectations before meeting in person. When you interact digitally, the majority of who you are is a blank canvas. Each person will paint in the missing portions to match their best guess and their ideal relationship. The longer you chat online, […]
My favorite part was when I started talking about how your partner’s height isn’t the key to true happiness and “will it really matter when you’re 65 if you’re partner is two inches shorter than you”. A girl in the audiences shouted “yes!” immediately.
Dating is all about status. Just like an RPG, you have a certain amount of points to equip yourself with. Status points are made up of attractiveness, social standing, job, income, personality, intelligence, sense of humor, etc. Everyone has a different amount of status points. You’ll earn more points over time and by “leveling up” […]