If you thought the boring drivel you wrote about your hopes and dreams is the most important part of your profile, you’re sorely mistaken. Your pictures are the number one factor when she’s trying to decide whether to return your message. Get Help Holding your camera phone up to a mirror for a partial body […]
Once you are “in” a relationship, it is hard to objectively judge that relationship. Because it is so easy to confuse attraction for quality partnership, you need a set of guidelines to judge potential long-term partners against. This is best done while you are SINGLE and aren’t writing the list in a reaction to one […]
Hate those long awkward silences? Having a few of these questions memorized should keep the conversation moving. Bonus: many of these questions work well on any first meeting with a stranger from co-workers to friends of friends. Remember listening is more powerful than talking. We are a culture starving to be heard. Keep asking interesting […]
Prepare your soundbites. These are short stories that make you sound interesting, fun, and unique. Do them right and you’ll be memorable. Don’t tell her you’re a geek who likes to play Halo. That’s predictable and obvious. Tell her how you combined your love of website design with yoga to create a blog that […]
The average 30-year-old male will spend the same amount of time messaging teenagers as women his own age.
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Getting Dirty Digitally Raises the Stakes It’s critical you don’t build up too many expectations before meeting in person. When you interact digitally, the majority of who you are is a blank canvas. Each person will paint in the missing portions to match their best guess and their ideal relationship. The longer you chat online, […]
My favorite part was when I started talking about how your partner’s height isn’t the key to true happiness and “will it really matter when you’re 65 if you’re partner is two inches shorter than you”. A girl in the audiences shouted “yes!” immediately.