You know why Nigerian scammers leave typos in their emails? People who notice typos are also smart enough to know that dethroned royalty do not need their help to get cash out of the country. Your first message can attract the right matches by being as unique as you are. You’ll attract better matches by [...]
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October 14, 2012 2 Comments
15 Keys to an Excellent First Date
Prepare your soundbites. These are short stories that make you sound interesting, fun, and unique. Do them right and you’ll be memorable. Don’t tell her you’re a geek who likes to play Halo. That’s predictable and obvious. Tell her how you combined your love of website design with yoga to create a blog that [...]
September 28, 2012 5 Comments
30 First Date Questions To Ask
Hate those long awkward silences? Having a few of these questions memorized should keep the conversation moving. Bonus: many of these questions work well on any first meeting with a stranger from co-workers to friends of friends. Remember listening is more powerful than talking. We are a culture starving to be heard. Keep asking interesting [...]
September 16, 2012 Leave a Comment
How to Speed Date: 21 Tips
Learn all about what speed dating is, why you should try it, and how to speed date like a pro.
September 15, 2012 3 Comments
Don’t Sext Until You’ve Sex’d
Getting Dirty Digitally Raises the Stakes It’s critical you don’t build up too many expectations before meeting in person. When you interact digitally, the majority of who you are is a blank canvas. Each person will paint in the missing portions to match their best guess and their ideal relationship. The longer you chat online, [...]
July 5, 2012 1 Comment
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10 Things You’re Screwing Up on First Dates
My favorite part was when I started talking about how your partner’s height isn’t the key to true happiness and “will it really matter when you’re 65 if you’re partner is two inches shorter than you”. A girl in the audiences shouted “yes!” immediately.
April 3, 2012 4 Comments
How Many Status Points Do You Have?
Dating is all about status. Just like an RPG, you have a certain amount of points to equip yourself with. Status points are made up of attractiveness, social standing, job, income, personality, intelligence, sense of humor, etc. Everyone has a different amount of status points. You’ll earn more points over time and by “leveling up” [...]
December 28, 2011 2 Comments
How to Apologize to Anyone
Whether you’ve pissed off your girlfriend, the girl you just met online, or a customer at work, here’s three steps to an apology that works every time.