Online Dating Profiles Part 1: Pictures

Online Dating Profiles Part 1: Pictures

If you thought the boring drivel you wrote about your hopes and dreams is the most important part of your profile, you’re sorely mistaken. Your pictures are the number one factor when she’s trying to decide whether to return your message. Get Help Holding your camera phone up to a mirror for a partial body […]

The Most Important Thing You Can Do While You’re Single – The Relationship Matrix

The Most Important Thing You Can Do While You’re Single – The Relationship Matrix

Once you are “in” a relationship, it is hard to objectively judge that relationship. Because it is so easy to confuse attraction for quality partnership, you need a set of guidelines to judge potential long-term partners against. This is best done while you are SINGLE and aren’t writing the list in a reaction to one […]

Unique Online Dating First Message Tactics

Unique Online Dating First Message Tactics

You know why Nigerian scammers leave typos in their emails? People who notice typos are also smart enough to know that dethroned royalty do not need their help to get cash out of the country. Your first message can attract the right matches by being as unique as you are. You’ll attract better matches by […]

30 First Date Questions To Ask

30 First Date Questions To Ask

Hate those long awkward silences? Having a few of these questions memorized should keep the conversation moving. Bonus: many of these questions work well on any first meeting with a stranger from co-workers to friends of friends. Remember listening is more powerful than talking. We are a culture starving to be heard. Keep asking interesting […]

7 Worst Online Dating Messages Ever

7 Worst Online Dating Messages Ever

A short selection of the worst messages I’ve gotten over the last year. (If you’re curious why women get burned out on OkCupid, getting a few of these a week wears on you.) Innocent Question = Lamest Way To Tell A Girl You’ve Got A Big Cock (ever) Awesome Grammar and Even Worse Content U […]

15 Keys to an Excellent First Date

15 Keys to an Excellent First Date

  Prepare your soundbites. These are short stories that make you sound interesting, fun, and unique. Do them right and you’ll be memorable. Don’t tell her you’re a geek who likes to play Halo. That’s predictable and obvious. Tell her how you combined your love of website design with yoga to create a blog that […]

Try Messaging Women Older Than You

Try Messaging Women Older Than You

The average 30-year-old male will spend the same amount of time messaging teenagers as women his own age.

How to Speed Date: 21 Tips

How to Speed Date: 21 Tips

Learn all about what speed dating is, why you should try it, and how to speed date like a pro.

Don’t Sext Until You’ve Sex’d

Don’t Sext Until You’ve Sex’d

Getting Dirty Digitally Raises the Stakes It’s critical you don’t build up too many expectations before meeting in person. When you interact digitally, the majority of who you are is a blank canvas. Each person will paint in the missing portions to match their best guess and their ideal relationship. The longer you chat online, […]

7 Reasons Your Messages Never Get A Reply

7 Reasons Your Messages Never Get A Reply

Your first message is about starting a conversation, it isn’t about convincing them to sleep with you in four sentences. Avoid the mistakes below and give them something to start talking to you about.

10 Things You’re Screwing Up on First Dates

10 Things You’re Screwing Up on First Dates

My favorite part was when I started talking about how your partner’s height isn’t the key to true happiness and “will it really matter when you’re 65 if you’re partner is two inches shorter than you”. A girl in the audiences shouted “yes!” immediately.