The Most Important Thing You Can Do While You’re Single – The Relationship Matrix

The Most Important Thing You Can Do While You’re Single – The Relationship Matrix

Once you are “in” a relationship, it is hard to objectively judge that relationship. Because it is so easy to confuse attraction for quality partnership, you need a set of guidelines to judge potential long-term partners against. This is best done while you are SINGLE and aren’t writing the list in a reaction to one […]

30 First Date Questions To Ask

30 First Date Questions To Ask

Hate those long awkward silences? Having a few of these questions memorized should keep the conversation moving. Bonus: many of these questions work well on any first meeting with a stranger from co-workers to friends of friends. Remember listening is more powerful than talking. We are a culture starving to be heard. Keep asking interesting […]

15 Keys to an Excellent First Date

15 Keys to an Excellent First Date

  Prepare your soundbites. These are short stories that make you sound interesting, fun, and unique. Do them right and you’ll be memorable. Don’t tell her you’re a geek who likes to play Halo. That’s predictable and obvious. Tell her how you combined your love of website design with yoga to create a blog that […]

Try Messaging Women Older Than You

Try Messaging Women Older Than You

The average 30-year-old male will spend the same amount of time messaging teenagers as women his own age.

How to Speed Date: 21 Tips

How to Speed Date: 21 Tips

Learn all about what speed dating is, why you should try it, and how to speed date like a pro.

7 Reasons Your Messages Never Get A Reply

7 Reasons Your Messages Never Get A Reply

Your first message is about starting a conversation, it isn’t about convincing them to sleep with you in four sentences. Avoid the mistakes below and give them something to start talking to you about.

How to Apologize to Anyone

How to Apologize to Anyone

Whether you’ve pissed off your girlfriend, the girl you just met online, or a customer at work, here’s three steps to an apology that works every time.

Low-stakes First Dates

Low-stakes First Dates

If you only read ONE thing. You need to read this post.