Racism is Alive And Well in Online Dating

Racism is Alive And Well in Online Dating

If you’re not a white guy, How Your Race Affects The Messages You Get is one of OkCupid’s most important blog posts. Take a glance at the female reply rates for messages sent by guys of different races. Rates in red are below average and rates in green are above average. Then read the complete […]

Online Dating Profiles Part 2: Usernames

Online Dating Profiles Part 2: Usernames

Your username is more important than you might think. Caution! Once you chose a username, some sites won’t let you change it. Make the choice carefully or be ready to make a new profile. Avoid Adding your birth year to the end (John-1982). Anything complimenting yourself: Sexy, bold, amazing, awesome, etc. Cheesy sexual references and […]

Online Dating Profiles Part 1: Pictures

Online Dating Profiles Part 1: Pictures

If you thought the boring drivel you wrote about your hopes and dreams is the most important part of your profile, you’re sorely mistaken. Your pictures are the number one factor when she’s trying to decide whether to return your message. Get Help Holding your camera phone up to a mirror for a partial body […]

Low-stakes First Dates

Low-stakes First Dates

If you only read ONE thing. You need to read this post.

Closers Get All The Ladies

Closers Get All The Ladies

Ever see an ugly guy dating a beautiful girl? Does your old college roommate hit a new one-night stand every week even if he reads at a 5th-grade level. You can bet one major difference between you and them is that they know how to close a deal. Assess the Target People are smarter than […]