Unique Online Dating First Message Tactics

Unique Online Dating First Message Tactics

You know why Nigerian scammers leave typos in their emails? People who notice typos are also smart enough to know that dethroned royalty do not need their help to get cash out of the country. Your first message can attract the right matches by being as unique as you are. You’ll attract better matches by […]

15 Keys to an Excellent First Date

15 Keys to an Excellent First Date

  Prepare your soundbites. These are short stories that make you sound interesting, fun, and unique. Do them right and you’ll be memorable. Don’t tell her you’re a geek who likes to play Halo. That’s predictable and obvious. Tell her how you combined your love of website design with yoga to create a blog that […]

Try Messaging Women Older Than You

Try Messaging Women Older Than You

The average 30-year-old male will spend the same amount of time messaging teenagers as women his own age.

Don’t Sext Until You’ve Sex’d

Don’t Sext Until You’ve Sex’d

Getting Dirty Digitally Raises the Stakes It’s critical you don’t build up too many expectations before meeting in person. When you interact digitally, the majority of who you are is a blank canvas. Each person will paint in the missing portions to match their best guess and their ideal relationship. The longer you chat online, […]

How Many Status Points Do You Have?

How Many Status Points Do You Have?

Dating is all about status. Just like an RPG, you have a certain amount of points to equip yourself with. Status points are made up of attractiveness, social standing, job, income, personality, intelligence, sense of humor, etc. Everyone has a different amount of status points. You’ll earn more points over time and by “leveling up” […]

What Age Range Can You Date?

What Age Range Can You Date?

According to XKCD, the age range of people you can date expands as your grow older. The number of online daters peaks at 24 (according to OkCupid) but desirable matches expand. The average 22 year-old women looks to date someone 22 to 25 (a 3 year age gap). However, the average 36 year-old women actively […]

Geeky Video eCards

Geeky Video eCards

No idea how to tell that special someone that you care are stalking her? Check out the Carded.tv “Nerds in Love” connection for hilarious video greeting cards. They’re free so now you have no excuse not to tell them that you care. In all seriousness, you need to risk your feelings to let them know that you’re […]

3 Tips on Efficient Dating from Timothy Ferriss

3 Tips on Efficient Dating from Timothy Ferriss

Author Tim Ferriss, famous for the 4-Hour Workweek, talks about his dating advice. Tim actually outsourced his online dating to overseas teams. They scheduled nearly 30 coffee dates in a weekend for him and he found a good match for a total cost of less than $300. He spent less than he would have on regular […]

Racism is Alive And Well in Online Dating

Racism is Alive And Well in Online Dating

If you’re not a white guy, How Your Race Affects The Messages You Get is one of OkCupid’s most important blog posts. Take a glance at the female reply rates for messages sent by guys of different races. Rates in red are below average and rates in green are above average. Then read the complete […]