The Most Important Thing You Can Do While You’re Single – The Relationship Matrix

The Most Important Thing You Can Do While You’re Single – The Relationship Matrix

Once you are “in” a relationship, it is hard to objectively judge that relationship. Because it is so easy to confuse attraction for quality partnership, you need a set of guidelines to judge potential long-term partners against. This is best done while you are SINGLE and aren’t writing the list in a reaction to one […]

How Many Status Points Do You Have?

How Many Status Points Do You Have?

Dating is all about status. Just like an RPG, you have a certain amount of points to equip yourself with. Status points are made up of attractiveness, social standing, job, income, personality, intelligence, sense of humor, etc. Everyone has a different amount of status points. You’ll earn more points over time and by “leveling up” […]

How to Apologize to Anyone

How to Apologize to Anyone

Whether you’ve pissed off your girlfriend, the girl you just met online, or a customer at work, here’s three steps to an apology that works every time.

Pain Is Inevitable, Suffering Is Optional

Pain Is Inevitable, Suffering Is Optional

In our culture we are taught that if we’re unhappy or angry that it is a result of another person or event. We often blame our girlfriend for making us angry or the traffic for making us stressed. You forget that there is a step between what happens in the outside world and how we […]

Peak Breakup Times

Peak Breakup Times

Want to know when your girlfriend is more likely to break it off? This timeline compiled from Facebook status updates shows the peak breakup days are Mondays but Christmas is too cruel to dump someone on. Valentine’s Day starts the run-up into a peak of “spring cleaning” around spring break (no surprise). Also popular is […]